All the daisies in the world

I just had a perfectly nice date doing perfectly nice date stuff with a perfectly nice girl. Nay, she was much more than just nice; beautiful, smart, and we seemed to fit like eggs and bananas (?). And the date was more than nice; we had lots of fun seeing an amazing Christmas lights show while talking through the mist of peppermint hot chocolate in the air. And yet, this may be a perfectly nice end...

So what's wrong?

Why is it so hard?

What variables must fall into place?

I need step by step instructions for dating. Awkward!!!